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Know your risk

Is it safer to be topper than to be bottomer?-

Yes, but...This doesn't mean there’s no HIV risk to the insertive partner ("topper"). HIV is more easily transmitted from the insertive to the receptive partner but neither position is safe.

Remember:

  • HIV risk is greater in the receptive position, but you can still get HIV if you’re the insertive partner ("topper");
  • Many gay men get HIV even though they're in the insertive position.
If he doesn't cum inside, is it safer?+
How do I know if he has the same HIV status as I do? +
I don't use condom with my regular partner, am I safe? +
Is oral sex safer? +
Are the following sexual activities safer? +